Monday, August 12, 2013

More Papers for The Journey: Hair Story - the inside look!

In my search for answers about why I'm so in love with my fabulous kinky tresses, I read a book entitled: The Hair Story (Untangling the roots of black hair in America) by Ayana D. Byrd and Lori L. Tharps. I LOVED this book! It really grounded me to why the emphasis on hair is so pronounced in black culture.  Head hair is a HUGE part of how we identify ourselves and can expose so many interesting things about who we are as human beings.

Ayana D. Byrd and Lori L. Tharps Hair Story
Come with me as I share the origin of MY hair love.  Let's start in a West African village where hair can tell the marital status, mourning stage, age, level of wealth, religion, rank and ethnic identity of a person.  You thought Patti LaBelle's towering razor blade styles of the eighties was intricate! Pah! Patti didn't have nothing on those women in the village! Braids, twists, beads, dyes, decorating with woven fabric..... the creativity in those hairdresser's fingertips was never ending.  Any of these techniques sound familiar? Single source oils were used such as shea butter and coconut oils.  Combs were fashioned out of wood and it would take hours or days to complete certain styles.  Sound familiar?  The role of the village hairdresser was one of honor.  Because most tribes believed a person's spirit resided in their hair, these women held a special place in society. They were considered to be the most trustworthy.  Sound familiar?

Once on the slave ship, all identity was stripped by cutting off the captive's hair.  The occupation as a slave determined how the hair was worn. Women and men who worked in the field had unkempt hair and would only think about "fixing" it when Sunday rolled around. Most days it was covered with a rag.  Slaves that worked in the house as maids, cooks, barbers, etc had styles more like their White owners.  Styles at this time were a combination of African traditions, European influence and Native American practices.  This is when the brainwashing began.  Kinks and coils were considered ugly and black people began to use means to change their hair texture to be more like the mainstream.  Sound familiar? 

A certain level of brainwashing is still going on today!  The good part is that we are more empowered to release our natural curls into the atmosphere.  By relishing in the kinks and capitalizing on the versatility of styles we can express our freedom and love for who we are!!

I have more to share because the story is no where near being over! I hope you are as enlightened as I was! My hair roots are intricate.  My hair speaks for who I am as an individual and represents my community.  My hair routines originate from my African roots.  I am astounded that even though my ancestor's identities were compromised and traditions were lost, the hair roots stayed in the ground.

Stay tuned for the rest of the Story!


Peace and love,

Friday, August 9, 2013

The Faux Hawk Remix

Hi Folks!

Since August is hair month on The Natural Journey For Life, I have been experimenting with various styles.  The main thing I've learned recently is that I can do A LOT with my hair right now!  I don't have to wear the same hair style until my tresses get longer like I thought I would! It's exciting!  Especially because I love tweaking and creating new looks.

I'm calling this new style the faux hawk remix.  It's composed of flat twist on the side with a chunky afro.  It's a bit of a change from my previous faux hawk, Flo fro and two stranded free twists. 

All I did was twist the sides, then the rest of my hair in thick sizeable twists.  I left it in overnight and released and finger combed the twist the next day.  It took about 30 minutes.  When I do the smaller twists it takes substantially longer (1 - 3 hours)! 

What do you think???

The side view (next time I'll use all black pins)

Front view...a little fuzzy...but you get the picture! It's chunky! :)
 
I'm almost ready to post the survey results! So far I've gotten excellent responses so a BIG thanks to all who have taken the time to share their stories!!  Click the link below to spill your hair guts too! :)
 
Click here to take the survey:    http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/DQH5LGW
 
 
Peace and blessings!

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

The Hair Journey: August is all about hair!!

Hi Folks!

This month I'm going to be focused on HAIR! A part of us, that can determine if we are going to run from the mirror or take our time in it! I know it does for me!! I've told you about my hair: past and present....and now it's time to get your side of the story!

Let's have a dialogue about hair! I want to hear back from you! Take the survey below and stay tuned to some exciting articles filled with real women who love their natural tresses!

Click here to take the survey:    http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/DQH5LGW





I'm looking forward to hearing from you!!!

Peace and blessings!

Monday, August 5, 2013

Mission Accomplished - The Jersey Girl Duathalon!!!!

Hi Folks!!

Yesterday was the Jersey Girl Tri/Duathalon!  I finished the race with gusto! I'm so happy I was able to compete this year! The race consisted of running 3.1 miles and biking 11 miles.  The atmosphere was filled with fun, encouragement (from all participants) and a WHOLE HEAP of  POSITIVE ENERGY.  It's the first race I've been in where other participants cheer you on...even when you pass them!  The running was the easiest part for me and like second nature.  I was in "compete" mode the minute the race started.   Next year it's on and popping again!!! :) In the meantime, I'll work on my biking skills.

Before the race right after the sun came up....it was BEAUTIFUL day! Perfect for a race!!


After the race.....I'm smiling but it was tough! The last leg in the biking part, I had to stop and walk due to knee pain. 

Mo Mo and me! I had to stop biking due to knee pain, she passed me (along with  a host of others), then to put icing on the cake, I got lost in the transition area and could not find my bike rack!
But my competitive nature kicked in, and I passed her in the last mile of running! Bad knees and all!!! Love ya!! Great job homie!!!

The Crew! These ladies did an AWESOME job!!!!! We all made it!!! Whoop whoop!!
 
It was a good day! Glad I did it....time to start getting ready for next year!! :)

Peace and blessings!